Q:whats yr sun/rising/moon?
virgo/scorpio/leo tell me everything!
Q:Hi! I've been wondering off and on about a scene in Trans Grrrls, and was hoping you could provide some insight. The scene where one partner seemed to be fingering inside the other's body, near the balls/perineum - what exactly WAS happening, what was being stimulated? Thanks!
I believe you are talking about Tobi Hill-Meyer and Quinn Cassidy (link to purchase clip download of full scene), who are doing what’s called muffing, in that scene in Trans Grrrls: Revolution Porn Style Now! i can’t tell you how much i love the word muffing. almost as much as i love the sex act.
there are a ton of nerve ends and sensitive spots in that area of the body and there are even places hidden by the skin there that have insert-able areas where you can push your fingers in and play with those deeper nerves. It’s a great way to penetrate a trans woman (or a cis man or a genderqueer person with a penis, as i don’t think this would have to be a women’s only activity!) somewhere other their their ass hole. the entire area between the asshole and the phallus are full of these nerves, but in this scene you see Tobi direct Quinn into the very, very specific and special spots where the deeper nerves can be accessed. if you are familiar with genital anatomy, you know that the clitoris is much, much larger than it’s surface area - and the same goes for penises. Both phallus arrangements are merely the external point of a very deep structure of pleasurable spots. i am so happy to see them being mapped out more and more. i feel very honored to have been able to provide an example of muffing that was as pleasurable to watch as it was informative. props to tobi and quinn for bringing it to the table on set!!!
there is a REALLY amazing article with a lot of diagrams and how-to advice in this amazing zine by Mira Bellweather, you should totally buy it (in print or PDF) it is ESSENTIAL. and pretty drawings. you can get it here, it’s the best $5 you’ll ever spend: https://payhip.com/b/hRtK
edited because i have so much more to say about muffing. it reminds me of the physical feelings i associate with fisting for myself. the spots quinn touch are exacting, and sensitive, and this act can require a bit of time communication lube love and patience to make it feel it’s absolute best. the nerve endings can be very tight and sensitive and it is said that over time muffing gets easier. looking at mira’s diagrams was extremely informative to me so far as finding out where the spots are and how shallow or deep you should start off. but always listen to your partner. they will tell you everything you need to know with their eyes, body language, and verbal instructions. that being said i have actually never done it. but i hope to soon. and learning about it gave me some fucking great insight on how our bodies work. ah, bodies! bodies are so amazing!
Q:Girl Pile looks so good! Is the instant download an HD file?
oh yes it is!! same quality as dvd, maybe even a little better. :)
Oh yea we are so mature
Q:First: you're beautiful and you make my lady garden self mist. My question is, have you ever been uncomfortable with the idea of your family actually seeing your work? I want to get out there and rep for fat, queer, PoC but I'm terrified about that.
i mean, do i want my family to watch me have sex? no not at all. most of my performances are behind membership pay walls, the chances of my family members buying a membership to my site would be pretty fuckin slim. but i guess this could be another argument against torrents and tube site illegal uploads. lol! i would hate for them to be exploring pornhub or whatever and find my porn incorrectly labeled with derogatory terms, that would really suck.
but, living your life in fear and letting that get in the way of your goals is no way to live.
my family knows i make porn. i love being out of the closet, it’s really really amazing. my relationships with them have deepened since i revealed my occupation.